As I said before they made us re-sign up, and furthermore, they are talking about breaking the group up into those who still have to lose weight and those on maintenance.
To refresh your memory, when they did that a while back they wanted to put us into two groups and it ended up that everyone but two wanted to lose more weight. As J keeps harping on no one is really on maintenance yet. But they keep calling the group maintenance. So if they break us up, then I am going to be in the group that still has a lot to lose, and I don't know anyone in that group. All my people are close to being done or are done now. Those are the ones that I want to be with, not the ones who tried and failed and whine that they just don't know why they can't lose weight anymore.
In all fairness, I was exactly where they are 10 months ago. I was frantic, I knew if I didn't lose weight I would probably not live past the new dog we got. But nothing I did or thought helped. The thought of having to lose all this weight was daunting and unattainable. I still have a lot to lose and is it still daunting, and to a certain degree feels unattainable, but...I feel more in control, and because I have lost so much so far I feel like I am in a healthier space, so I don't feel so close to death.
So what is a girl to do? Go with the maintenance people or stick with the lose weight people. What a quandary.
To refresh your memory, when they did that a while back they wanted to put us into two groups and it ended up that everyone but two wanted to lose more weight. As J keeps harping on no one is really on maintenance yet. But they keep calling the group maintenance. So if they break us up, then I am going to be in the group that still has a lot to lose, and I don't know anyone in that group. All my people are close to being done or are done now. Those are the ones that I want to be with, not the ones who tried and failed and whine that they just don't know why they can't lose weight anymore.
In all fairness, I was exactly where they are 10 months ago. I was frantic, I knew if I didn't lose weight I would probably not live past the new dog we got. But nothing I did or thought helped. The thought of having to lose all this weight was daunting and unattainable. I still have a lot to lose and is it still daunting, and to a certain degree feels unattainable, but...I feel more in control, and because I have lost so much so far I feel like I am in a healthier space, so I don't feel so close to death.
So what is a girl to do? Go with the maintenance people or stick with the lose weight people. What a quandary.
Maybe use Taya & TSH as an additional support group?
ReplyDeleteDid you tell the person your reservations? Maybe a phone call or email to the person in charge (likely an email since T3 doesn't like the phone) would help? They really need to know what they're screwing up.
Whitemop says she'll bite them if you like!
I predict it won't come to a split, especially if they are having trouble keeping numbers up.
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