At least they are not telling me how much better I am looking. I know that is hard not to say and I find myself saying it to people in Group. I am just reaffirming that if you are fat you are ugly.
But here is the truth and all people who are overweight realize it, we just don't want to admit it. When you are heavy you lose your distinct facial features, it all kind of blends into a fat blob, and people don't see your eyes, or your mouth and they definitely don't see your bone structure. I have always had big eyes, but the heavier I get the less big they get. I have not had anyone in years comment on what big eyes I have. I used to get those comments on a daily basis when I was thinner. Not what beautiful eyes mind you, just how big they were. I literally got comments all the time. everywhere from everyone. I remember going to a fair and this little kid coming up to me and telling me I had big eyes. (I know I know that is a another blog - like I need to be told that I have big eyes - is it a question, statement or???)
So for the last 20 years I have had no comments whatsoever on my eyes. I am curious, do you think there will be a point in the weight loss were people will comment again? Time will only tell.
T3's memory is going.
ReplyDeleteTSH has complimented her on her lovely "Egyptian like eyes" on many occasions including comparisons to "Nefertiti" at the Tut exhibit as well as "eyes are the door to T3's soul" (I guess she thought I meant "sole" as in foot & gave me the boot).
Your most obedient AND observant servant, TSH